Losing Bing at the beach was obviously devastating for Rose. She blames herself for losing Bing, though everyone in the family secretly felt guilty for not being responsible. It is evident that the tragedy still has an effect on Rose in the present time. She compares her divorce with the Bing tragedy, saying that they both are the same in the sense that she saw it and allowed it to happen without stopping it. The fact that she is lamenting on the event says that it is still deep in her mind. In her way of thinking, she believes that she is unable to stop bad events that will happen to her, even though she sees them ahead of time. She thinks that all she can do is accept them.
My advice to Rose is that she should not feel discouraged by the past memmory of Bing disappearing in the water. What happened was entirely unable to speculate, and she should not stick with the past so much. Now is the time to decide for herself what should happen to her marriage and not the time to stick to past. Sticking to events in the past can ruin the present. Believing she cannot make a change can destroy the chance for her to actually do something good, something that can change her miserable furture into a paradise.
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